24 Brutal Truths To Make Real Change In 2025

How to stop being indecisive & take action, persevere when things get rough, why overnight successes don’t happen overnight, if there is a wrong way to live your 20s, the single most important habit to cultivate in life & more.

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95% of Self-Work

"Alot of self work can be summarized into; thoughts aren't true, feelings don't require actions, things aren't good or bad they just are, our greatest enemy is ignorance, to change your life change your surroundings, our actions not our past define who we are." 

Explores Moralist Thought. Ignorance = "Evil"; Knowledge = "Good"

Most atrocities people inflict on one another come from ignorance. We don't know something about the other person & if we had absolute context/knowledge then we probably wouldn't try to hurt them. The pursuit of learning should our ultimate purpose in life.

BF Skinner - "People say you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink, false. If I dehydrate the horse, salt its mouth, put it in the heat, & put its face one inch away from water, I can vertably guaruntee that it will drink." 
    • What is the Behavior that you want / To Drink the Water
    • What are the Conditions you can replicate / The Salt in your Mouth
    • What is the Motivation / The Dehydration
Think of yourself as the horse- How can you increase the liklihood that your behaviors will match the ideal direction you want your life to go in?

The Risks of Distraction

"The biggest risk to your future isn't your competition, it's the distractions you insist on keeping in your life rather than doing the things you know you should be doing but aren't." 

People delay doing the things they don't like for longer than it takes to do them. Eliminate the time between "I think I should do this thing" & beginning to do it.

Bad things Happen in Three's

"Bad stuff sucks the only thing worse is letting one bad thing ruin many good things." 

The domino fallacy"Bad things happen in threes" No, bad things happen all the time, they only become interrelated if you let them affect your behaviors & mindset. Think- This bad thing occured what can I do to decrease the liklihood that something else bad happens in the meantime? Boil down to Activities & actions to take- How much will a bad thing affect your behavior? The indestructable person has something terrible happen & nothing changes or, they become better

Focus on the Outcomes

Hormozi emphasizes the importance of prioritizing results over mere activities. He suggests that many individuals become engrossed in routines and preparations that don't directly contribute to their goals. By concentrating on tangible outcomes, one can streamline efforts and achieve objectives more efficiently.

Opportunity in Failure

Viewing failure as a learning opportunity is crucial. Hormozi argues that successful individuals perceive failure as a chance to grow and adapt, whereas others may see it as a setback. Embracing failure can lead to resilience and eventual success.

Enjoy the Life You Have 

Appreciating one's current circumstances is vital for contentment. Hormozi advises against deferring happiness until after achieving specific goals. Instead, finding joy in the present can lead to a more fulfilling life.

How Do You Work When Nobody's Watching?

Integrity and self-discipline are tested in moments without external oversight. Hormozi highlights that true character is revealed by the effort and dedication one maintains even when unobserved.

"True Revenge"

Success is the best form of revenge. Rather than seeking retribution, Hormozi suggests that achieving one's goals and excelling is the most effective way to respond to detractors.

People are Jealous of the View But Not the Climb

Many envy the success of others without recognizing the hard work and sacrifices involved. Hormozi points out that the journey to success is often overlooked, yet it's where growth and development occur.

Finding Work That You Love

Pursuing passion in one's career leads to greater satisfaction and productivity. Hormozi encourages individuals to seek work that aligns with their interests, as this fosters intrinsic motivation and long-term success.

Why You Shouldn't Fear Criticism 

Criticism offers valuable feedback for improvement. Hormozi asserts that fearing criticism can hinder growth, whereas embracing it can provide insights and opportunities for development.

Investing Time More Wisely

Time is a finite resource that should be allocated thoughtfully. Hormozi advises prioritizing activities that yield the highest returns, both personally and professionally, to maximize one's potential.

What Confidence Means

True confidence stems from competence and preparation. Hormozi explains that building skills and knowledge leads to genuine self-assurance, as opposed to superficial displays of confidence.

Pricicely Defining Terms

Clear communication requires precise definitions. Hormozi emphasizes that misunderstandings often arise from ambiguous language; therefore, defining terms clearly is essential for effective discourse.

Find the Others.

Surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals fosters growth. Hormozi suggests seeking out communities that share similar goals and values, as this environment can provide support and inspiration.

Authenticity - Chris Bumstead

Authenticity involves being true to oneself. Referencing bodybuilder Chris Bumstead, Hormozi highlights that genuine self-expression resonates more deeply with others and leads to more meaningful connections.

The Price of Doing Business

Every endeavor has inherent costs and challenges. Hormozi reminds us that obstacles are a natural part of any pursuit, and accepting this reality prepares individuals to navigate difficulties effectively.

The Perfect Way to Live Your 20's

Maximizing one's 20s involves exploration and skill development. Hormozi advises using this decade to take risks, learn extensively, and lay the foundation for future success.

Having a Clue is Over-Rated

Overemphasis on planning can lead to inaction. Hormozi suggests that taking action, even without complete information, often yields better results than waiting for perfect clarity.

How to Not Lead a Toothless Life

Living with conviction and assertiveness prevents a passive existence. Hormozi encourages individuals to stand by their principles and take decisive actions to lead a fulfilling life.

 

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